If you're single and have looked around and seen the kind of marriage you would like go have, take a moment to think about the individuals in that marriage, who are they, how are they?

Now think about yourself. Do you currently fit the description of how they are?

Now, make an action plan for how you can learn and grow in the areas where you're not at that level.

Think character and practical things, not personality and immutable things.

Like, how do the treat others? How do they talk about each other? What is their focus? How do they dress?