My sis experienced the sick kid at Disney, she was miserable. Her in-laws were out the money.
I know several great guys who never wanted to settle down and have kids...one got to 50 and is having regrets. We had Jr later than most who were having kids at the time, so we were married 7 years before he came along and together more than 10...but we also got together when I was 17 🤷♀️