The only other thing I would mention is that switching over to nip44 or nip44 + giftwraps now is an unnecessary hardfork of DMs and is only going to cause people to leave the protocol.
This desire to hardfork core communication functionality all the time is concerning. I already saw a thread of people getting frustrated that people aren’t getting DMs from amethyst users.
You could argue noone should use nip04 dms anyways because of metadata leakage, but replacing it nip44 doesn’t even fix that. giftwraps are complex and are not obviously the solution either.
My preferred route would have been keep nip04 for as long as possible until we have a really secure protocol extension that solves private communications in a robust way. A solution that is so obviously better and simple to implement that everyone would switch to it. Not sure if thats possible, but I would have at least liked to see ratcheting (OMEMO ?) in the v2 DM spec.