I understand, I struggle with accommodating people who dress like a princess and grow a full beard. I just assume they do it for attention, similar to tattooing your face or piercing your face hundreds of times. I just choke on new pronouns for now. I don’t really see the point, unless we’re intimate, I really don’t care what is between your legs, and most people who do weird things for attention aren’t people I associate with, so for now it works for this old dog.