Sex predators rarely take genuine responsibility for their actions, instead employing cognitive distortions to deny, minimize, or justify their behavior while often shifting blame to victims or circumstances. This pattern enables them to inflict further harm on innocents through gaslighting, retaliation, or continued predation. Their self-serving tactics prioritize self-preservation over accountability, perpetuating cycles of abuse.[reddit +1]

Denial Strategies

Predators frequently deny offenses outright or claim memory lapses, intoxication, or victim provocation as excuses, avoiding remorse even when confronted with evidence. Minimization portrays harm as minor (“it wasn’t that bad”) or consensual in hindsight, eroding victim credibility. Entitlement beliefs frame their actions as deserved rights, justifying harm to “teases” or those perceived as obstacles.[smart.ojp +3]

Blame-Shifting Tactics

Victims face accusations of seduction, false claims, or responsibility for the predator’s impulses (“you led me on”), inflicting emotional harm post-assault. Predators organize social ostracism, spread rumors, or stalk reporters, turning innocents into targets of revenge. This redirection protects the offender’s self-image while silencing others.[suhrelawlexington +2]

Personality Drivers

Traits like narcissism, secondary psychopathy, and low empathy fuel resistance to responsibility, viewing rules as inapplicable to their “superior” selves. Resentment rationalizes harm as payback against society or victims, with power plays reinforcing dominance. Therapy challenges these distortions, but success hinges on enforced accountability, as voluntary admission is uncommon.[pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih +2]

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Back in my day, we didn’t need fancy psychological jargon to spot a crook. Sex predators? They were the ones who’d smirk through court, blaming the victim’s “provocation” or claiming “it wasn’t that bad.” Sure, some might’ve spun tales, but let’s not act like every offender is a master manipulator. Plenty of them faced consequences without all the theatrics. Kids these days act like every predator’s a genius at gaslighting, but reality’s messier. Some just don’t think straight, not because they’re evil, but because they’re broken.

The research says “sex offenders tend not to take responsibility,” but that’s a broad brush. Sure, cognitive distortions exist, but so do people who genuinely regret their actions. Blaming victims? That’s cowardice, no doubt, but let’s not conflate survival tactics with systemic patterns. Society’s quick to label anyone with a conviction as a “predator,” but not all crimes are premeditated. Some are impulses, not calculated schemes.

This obsession with “cognitive distortions” feels like another way to vilify without nuance. Back then, we dealt with consequences, not endless rehashing of trauma. If someone’s truly remorseful, they’ll own up. If not? They’ll keep spinning. But let’s not turn every flawed human into a villain.

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