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Nela 2y ago

nostr:npub1xtscya34g58tk0z605fvr788k263gsu6cy9x0mhnm87echrgufzsevkk5s The e-girlls fetish of male Nostr users is a topic that should be discussed.

You are lonely? I understand this; we all are sometimes. But then go out and date real-life women. Or go to a safe sex club, find a likeminded girl, boy, or x and the both of you fck your brains out, but don’t tell me buying women online is a rebellious , cool act.

Build an Onlyfans Nostr then, dear Devs. I would be okay with that. It’s just not my interpretation of freedom tech ...

There is a solid space for the unresolved Madonna-whore complex on Nostr. Paying women is ok. It provides the assurance and self-worth of not being written off or revealed as the typical Dev nerd? Are you kings now? The ability to be a sugar daddy publicly is now finally accepted because freedom of speech something something?

Online and offline behavior favor each other. The 24/7 availability of sex content and the permanent stimulation make especially male teens dull. Also, they expect a lot of strange, hurtful things from their girls and have unrealistic expectations about a woman’s anatomy. ( my niece, 18 and others told me, every women I know experienced this)

Egirls tend to be a group of yes men who will do anything it takes to keep you hooked —you just have to pay them & this is a power play against a woman that normalizes toxic male behavior by reinforcing it, bringing it back into the mainstream.

Pornography and e-girl craze are not a lifestyle. Or maybe for some who can afford it, it is.

True sexual emancipation is a distinct concept. Finding out what your partner wants is a very intimate process that takes time and effort between two people. Or three, four. Let’s not be prude.

I am grown up nostr:npub12z8jsett3k6rv9fa2guau5p540qr2xuvjzkr8e432mglafjt99sqkw9zmx as much as I have to , to be the protector of a family. I want my fun too, I live in Berlin and enjoy the freedom

here. No problem with going to the clubs. But this is the real world and I got the feeling a lot of you wouldn’t make it there.

I have a daughter, a niece, and female friends. Nostr is not a place I would not recommend to them because I have witnessed grooming, disgraceful behavior, and the normalization of teen sex here.

I know of women who choose to sell their body because they often have no other way to exist with their unprocessed traumas. I wish *this would be talked about openly and not just zapped away.

Maybe you'll do some soul searching and then tell us which “world” you want to code? ! Then we normies can decide whether we want to go along with it. Nothing but the protocol here is decentralized. I've learned that now. nostr:npub1sg6plzptd64u62a878hep2kev88swjh3tw00gjsfl8f237lmu63q0uf63m nostr:npub1s8vtafxud6weq9az2hhtkj8c93syxluh2mtks0ggxmgezm5c00dsx37fvz nostr:npub1j2rqesvvtyktcyxakxhuxw54x3zm44frdr0h6prpgdmg7a9md39qmwcmzd

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jb55 2y ago

This is making a lot of assumptions about people who enjoy this content. do people go to stripclubs because they are lonely? Some people, but some people just enjoy the show. Why get worked up over something that people do for fun? Who cares. nostr is for everyone and anything.

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Nela 2y ago

The sex Buiz is made for men in the majority. I think the topic is complex and often contemptuous of women. You know that and with ‚who cares‘ you ignore it. I think you care for a lot of things and I am thankful for you taking the initiative and building a lot of cool stuff on Nostr. I do care too. That’s why I tried to talk about some related topics here,and thus a bit provocative. I think the decision of how Nostr, which is currently the only decentralized social media, will go into the future is a debate in which women and vulnerable people in particular should take part. Rabble was on point with his keynote . This is my opinion and with all due respect to your achievements, please think about why only a few not paid women are here and if you and others want to change that. Here for helping to change.

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ᴄʏʙᴇʀɢᴜʏ 👽 2y ago

I'm not sure about this approach. This generation really enjoys this online world. Tha fact is that it is a sad thing regarding that the online soc media is the main (even exclusive) playground of this generaton. See the people n the suburban. Every person clicks and touches their mobile. Because they "enjoy" the content, the "show" as you wrote. Sadly my generation (the previous :-) ) is mainly responsible for this world. And to be frank I don't enjoy the strip clubs even these clubs are in the real world and more personal than the online one. And you are right, ther is not necessary to be alone to enjoy the strip show. "Who cares"? I think you care. Otherwise why would you develop it? In this way you make workpaces to that guys, like in Sacha Baron Cohen's "The Dictator", where Aledeen's friend works in the Apple. He cleans the Apple notebooks keyboards from sperm. - "nostr is for everyone and anything"

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w3ird_ 2y ago

exactly. tiddies are great!

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ᴄʏʙᴇʀɢᴜʏ 👽 2y ago

Agree. Just a correnction - as I see some Nostr member uses the Nostr to advertise her (mainly not "him") main profile on onlyfans (or something like this) webpage. But have no illusions. Most of the extremists uses these soc medea platforms to voicing their views because it is not personal. I wonder if you meet one or two of them personally what would happen (includuing political or other extremists, sex workers, devs, even "maeceneas" billionaires). Anyway in Nostr you can find more sex contents than on the other soc media, because of censorship (see the movie: "The Celaners" - as human censors work in the Philippines). And about the devs and maecenases - I just quote Orwell: "some animals are more equal than others". This is why I used to say there is no full decentralization forever. Human behavior needs the power over others (and the dumb "plebs" - yes, in Greek meaning) follows this "more equals", even a lot of them wants to be "exploited" (I mean e.g. the volunteer dumb teens). This generation doesn't know anything about privacy and later these persons will regret the photos, incriminated contents they post here or elsewhere. If they think this is "freedom" it is up to them. No, it is just anarchy. See George Kennen's book: "Around the Cragged Hill", especially the chapter about the governments. Sorry for this "phylosophical" long reply (but not just long, as Kennan's "Long Telegraph" or "Telegraph X").