I get what you’re saying, but i’m pretty sure the bear trend was women who were speaking about domestic violence and sexual assault.
Men who do that aren’t real men, it’s okay for women to open up about it. If men see that as demeaning they should look in the mirror and ask themselves why it bothers them when women speak out about sexual violence at the hands of men.
I don’t use tiktok so i don’t see this stuff, but that trend was very specific. Other than the bear trend, I don’t see anything like that anywhere else. Remember your feed is based on an algorithm that’s catered to you.