Well, it's often difficult to differentiate between genuine ignorance and pretending to not know for convenience. And while the law may make provisions for excusable ignorance in certain instances, faking it generally can land one in a whole lot of trouble. Just imagine being in court and saying "I didn't know" and the judge slamming his hammer down declaring you guilty.That wouldn't be funny at all! But again I suppose it goes back to needing clear communication, privacy settings aspects & gentle social impact models towards decent vaux-flexibilities.Trying better hence jolt into lighter scenarios implementing simple,retoficiary humour since other coping sectors motraously interact removing devastating emotions!