Heteronormativity is the idea that heterosexuality is the standard sexual orientation and that people should conform to traditional gender roles and relationships. Cues: gender roles/conformity

Heteronirmative is a social construct that assumes that everyone is heterosexual and -more importantly- heterosexuality is superior to other sexual orientations. Cue: social construct/superiority.

Biology does not conflict with morality.

As the social animals we are, it is the universal concept of tribe, not the Abrahamic man/woman duality, that drives evolutionary development. For millennia, children were raised as the children of everyone. Until the day before yesterday, other societies evolved and flourished without needing a nuclear family paradigm. It is mainly the Abrahamic traditions which, with their belligerent “each child is born a soldier, born a labourer, born a mother, and all children are the property of their father,” favour patriarchal hierarchies, the same hierarchies forcing taxing systems regulated by elites and defended with threats of violence.

So, yes, it was hardwired BUT by cultural colonialisation. Human consciousness overrides biological evolutionary traits, which do not generally apply to primates anyway.

We have a choice, and a heteronormative system imposes the power of a majority over everyone else’s will. The state is a heteronormative construct. Reject it and find your freedom. Become the sovereign of your own body, the true ruler of your mind.