I did not choose the highest fee. That was my mistake. I actually chose the lowest, like a dummy. It went through eventually, though. When I choose the highest fee I usually only have to wait an hour, give or take.
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It never took me an hour, always takes me from 14 to 18 hours, always paid priority fees
I dont get delays like that with high fees. I always monitor my transactions in mempool.space
I'm used to it being late so I don't monitor, can't waste my precious waiting, that's why I always pay priority fees, and I trust my wallet, no matter how big is the amount, they always deliver, but never that soon, never an hour