i figured out why NOSTR has failed
it's because the insufferable people who created it were allowed to post on it
if instead they simply paid awesome nazi pedophiles to post NOSTR could have been
this is basic 101. when you start a dating site you need to populate it with hot chicks ( real or fake )
NOSTR should have been prepopulated with nazi pedophiles like me ( the equivalent of a hot chick for social media )