Yes I'm being smug and condescending because that is the environment you set. You set the tone with your original question.
If you prefer a different environment then go ahead and change your tone and I'll change also.
I'm also being smug and condescending for all the responses you give like "handwaving".
I'm following your lead.
Also, my answers are correct whether you like them or not and your experience of running a node is extremely limited and you have built an entirely false narrative based on your very limited experience.
If you are unfamiliar with my normal style, perhaps this response to a different thread will help. Here is me flipping from being smug and condescending to helpful and very cooperative when prompted.