Taking responsibility makes you unfree, right? It‘s a commitment you make before you act (or after). You choose to limit yourself, either freely or by pressure.
I think of responsibilty as a quota. And everyone can only take on so much. If you have many choices, the outcome probably doesn‘t matter so much. So less responsibilty waits on the other side for you, while most waits on the other side of a binary choice, because it limits perfectly. Do or do not.