The general idea I got from her is that:

- most men like soft, youthful, pleasant-looking women, preferably with rounded cheeks, rosebud lips, and large eyes

- the vast majority of men prefer women in their late teens or early twenties, when they have a youthful face, but an adult body

- some women maintain that youthful face well into middle age (neoteny) and that is why they stay attractive

- most men prefer hair that isn't cropped short, oddly asymmetric, or dyed an unnatural color

- most men prefer very narrow waists (low WHR)

- most men prefer a full bosom and a full behind, and it's generally better to err toward "full" than "flat"

- most men are ambivalent about female height

- most men are ambivalent about natural hair colors, but some strongly prefer lighter colors

- most men are ambivalent about eye color, but some strongly prefer lighter colors

- men tend to prefer women who are slightly paler than they are

- individual men tend to focus on a subset of the ideal and take additional factors other than raw beauty into consideration, when selecting a partner, so almost all women have a selection of men to choose from