so in other words, it's a problem with v4v. You are basically describing the way the entire world currently works and you expect IT to change for you. Maybe on a long enough time frame this plays out but this may be a very long timeframe and people have bills to pay now.
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I am not advocating for people to switch to a v4v/nostr/bitcoin model with expectations that it will be the same. I don't know anyone who is. Thinking v4v, through Nostr and Bitcoin, will perform 100% the same as the best performing current existing alternative model, while the technology and the user base is in its infancy, is delusional. People who 'have bills to pay now' and are putting all their eggs into an experimental basket seem to be the ones that want the world as it exists to change, rather than changing their revenue models or diversifying to mitigate risk.