Not sure, but he did miss the obvious signs at least 8 years ago. Even when the dot are nearly touching in the dot to dot and they still can't see the picture.
It's probably going to be hard on them. I've found you can have all the personal experience in the world and tell them the hard truth and it's still over their head.
Every once in a while you do find someone it finally clicks with. It's pretty cool watching that lightbulb light up for the first time. They get that massive mind blow.
Sometimes you have those you give the slow golf clap for, like bought fucking time what took you so long. Almost want to mock them.
Then you get the idiots that is snaps as if they are the only one that know shit and they are like the fucking new guy at work running around telling everyone how smart they are. Dude shut the fuck up before I slap the shit out of you. In fact go sit in the corner with the other kids with crayons.
Sometimes you also have to set a low bar like common sense. They ain't got no common sense, I'm tapping out. Not worth my time.
I enjoyed your chat.