All very interesting.
I never liked Gnome either. Felt odd. I always used KDE.
I don't think I've ever used xfce or arch. I used Ubuntu and that felt odd to me, as well. I think I just locked in to the Redhat family long ago and stuck with it through the changes.
I just closed my website and decommissioned the servers. They went from Redhat to Centos to Rocky over the years.
Now I have a Rocky development VPS I'm playing around with.
I have several Linux variations on portable SSDs that I boot to at home for fun. I also load up the virtualization stack and play around.
I've thought about doing development work on Linux desktop - Visual Studio code and the iPhone/Android simulators - but I don't know how well the mobile simulators are supported.
Everything works well on Mac OS so I've stuck with it all these years for my main desktop.