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Because good luck being anyone else.

Because it doesn’t point to a “good” outcome. It just boosts self-esteem.

Sure you might encourage someone to do something they wouldn’t. But you have no modality to indicate that the new action would be “good” regardless of how you define “good”.

Culture-based behavioral regulation is a reliable way to ensure homogeneity of a unified set of cultural values, which we could reasonably call “the collective good”.

Would you tell Hitler/Stalin/Mao to “just be yourself?” Of course not! You’d be encouraging evil. They didn’t need encouragement because they were malevolent narcissists. But that begs the question, how did they become narcissists? I’d posit it’s, at least in part because someone, at some point encouraged them to “just be themselves”. And look how that bloody went!

Hmmmm. interesting viewpoint. As a libertarian, i do find it difficult to tell someone to be something theyre not. Usually my core philosophy is as long as its not harming anyone else, let them do whatever the fuck they want. So i probably would agree with you on the hitler part, but i wouldnt tell a crackhead to not smoke crack if it makes him/her really happy and that is their passion. Crack. Sometimes different viewpoints and opinions is what accelerates the world to new discoveries. I like when people are different and dont conform to society. im kind of a anarchist tho. LOL

I’m also basically an anarchist. I think there’s a massive difference between forcing people at gunpoint to do a certain thing and encouraging people to follow a good path.

You probably wouldn’t want someone you care about to get addicted to crack. But you wouldn’t kill them if they refused to quit. Nahmean?

Scenarios vary greatly. Being oneself may occasionally yield good outcomes, but just as often, if not more so, the situation calls for specific behavior that may not be one’s natural response.

Ouuuuu understood! interesting!