It seems most agree on this, so go on knots if you don't agree. It is the only way to "vote" for a vision change.
"Anyway, this kind of non-technical discussion seems off-topic for this pull-req. Best to do it on the mailing list. And furthermore, people have choice - Knots exists. If they wish to enforce these limits on their own nodes they're welcome to run Knots. There's no reason why Bitcoin Core should be forced to take on the maintenance burden of maintaining arbitrary limits that we believe are ineffective, and even harmful."
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/32359#issuecomment-2833660649