So I guess you send over all at once your biggest amount to play with.

Then do not deposit anymore - until you spend some first - then you can deposit a bit more, up to your original amount on your first deposit.

If you do multiple smaller deposits - you get hammered each time, because they are opening a new channel.

What a pile of diarrhea. Glad my fiat banks do not do this.

I play with lightning. (Like a shit coin)

But Monero doesn’t play these silly games. XMR forever. Nodes, Mining, spending, saving, using, security, privacy so much better.