Fundamentally on the same page as you but ptsd from the burn of enthusiasm from the mid 90s lingers.
As nostr grows will we see a facebook/google/vc team come out with a client/relay combo for the masses? KYC/content censorship becomes the norm and alternative clients banned under tough regulation. Us rebels then sidelined into the dark corners again. I'm aware of the argument that they can't touch us, nostr is uncensorable etc but we pretty much thought that in the early 90s too.
Are some clients/relays already monetising/manipulating our data now?
Will clients ban images of Xi Jinping, as midjourney AI have done, with the justification that users in china can therefore use the product?
I'm not trying to be negative, I'm genuinely interested in thinking through how nostr with lightning and dare I say maybe even some other BTC L2 like fedimints or drivechains will move forward.