Fascinating. You seem to be onto roughly the same goal as me, from a moral and utility standpoint, but you are depicting it as a strictly ethical phenomenon, that is, a dynamic that can be seen directly between interacting people. You're perceiving an external representation/indicator that I am only inferring through multiple steps of inspection into a man's thought patterns, his failure to allow for less friction in exchange by exercising his reason and pursuing his self interest within the NAP.