I always consider being misunderstood as my own failure. If I communicate well then I should not be misunderstood. Though it can be quite hard to communicate well, because one must take into consideration the assumptions and biases of others when communicating.
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In such situations I wouldn't blame myself there are some people where logic does not compute & just live on emotional adreneline. Sometimes people just don't want to listen like camels.
I don’t mean that I’m to blame for being misunderstood. I mean that I see it as my responsibility to communicate in a way others can understand.
Miscommunication isn’t a moral failure; there’s no wrong to be ascribed when it happens.
There are times when others may engage in willful ignorance, which I do think is wrong. But I still see it as my responsibility to find a way to communicate effectively.