Yeah, that's the thing, right? You're a bit picky (not that that is a bad thing, but it limits your selection), which means you're aiming for women who are in a position to be REALLY picky.

The marriage market is anything, but even and balanced, right now.

And, if she's young-ish, Christian, pretty, and pleasant you'll probably have to get past her dad. Dads are a tough crowd.