What is private vs personal?
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Private meaning only certain people can use it, maybe it's paid, maybe it's for your family, maybe it's for your community group. This could be something like nostr.wine or a WoT relay or something much smaller.
Personal would be just for you, essentially s backup of all of your events and more. This would be something like a #Haven relay.
I guess it's personal since I'm the only one to use it. I'd run a full relay but honestly I don't know the implications of "c" p content nor do I know how to protect against it.
Check out Haven from nostr:nprofile1qqsg4k8377xguyvkvfpw9znu59wfx6er4xvat7u3hljwg3ew94h274gpzdmhxue69uhhwmm59e6hg7r09ehkuef0qy2hwumn8ghj7enjv4h8xtn4w3ux7tn0dejj7qg4waehxw309aex2mrp0yhxgctdw4eju6t09u40ce0y It's what I run for my personal relay.
I'll check it out right now I run my BTC node and nostr relay in the same start9 box I made out of a thin client optiplex. Simple enough for a dummy like me.