I am over on Android, so I am not sure which of those I would recommend using for managing your relays. YakiHonne is the only one of those that is also on Android and is a pretty solid client. Your relay settings are still a bit limited, there, though. You can only update your main relay set, and select whether you want to read from them, write to them, or both. There are no settings for your preferred DM inbox relays, search relays, or anything else you may want to configure.