For sure it’s painful to sit and listen day in day out to the elders, it has merit & we’ll all be there one day, last in line. And I do listen with empathy. But I also know my truth, and what goes into it, I’ve now lived it. So yea it’s difficult as language is also a science and you never know what sticks and what doesn’t. But yea, I get mostly crap from my family constantly - so remember you don’t choose your family but you do choose your friends!