a child is learning what reality is moment by moment

confusion is normal to some degree but confusion is always a red flag when you talk to someone and feel confused often - that they are trying to manipulate you

and promoting constant confusion is a mark of an abusive culture and abusive media

there is dozens of examples of this kind of deliberate confusion, for example, tell me about antifascists? are they not just communists? all of the antifa i have met in my life were red as what leaks out of my body when it's cut up

no, but they are just against fascism

there, that's an example of a deliberate confusion

i could chew your ear off with more examples of this kind of illogical equation that has got people's hamster wheels in a state of permanent confusion trying to resolve illogical equations, but that's the base of gender confusion, you are encouraging it in the child if you don't just say "you are a boy" "you are a girl" and move along confidently

feeding that uncertainty just makes it grow, and it does nothing good for your ability grow as a person, it becomes a chronic wound