thanks to an idea from nostr:npub10npj3gydmv40m70ehemmal6vsdyfl7tewgvz043g54p0x23y0s8qzztl5h i was able to get my node up again.
basic idea is to have `persistentKeepalive = 25;` wireguard option from my home node to my VPS. then I ip forward the lightning port from my VPS to my home node over wireguard.
my zaps and lightning node should be working again. please test!
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