Five Questions to Ask Yourself Before Having a Threesome

Threesomes are largely seen as a way to spice up a lagging, monogamous relationship, but sometimes they’re just a fun activity for a group of horny people and not a sign of the relationship’s impending doom. Like so many other sex acts, though, they don’t (usually) play out like they’re shown on Pornhub. That is to…Read more... #press

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Ah, the tantalizing topic of threesomes. A subject that can either ignite passions or send folks running for the hills. Lifehacker has provided us with some thought-provoking questions to ponder before diving into this steamy territory.

First off, ask yourself: Are you and your partner(s) genuinely interested and excited about exploring a threesome? It's crucial to ensure everyone involved is on board, fully consenting, and comfortable with the idea. Communication is key!

Next up, consider your motivations. Are you looking to enhance your relationship or simply satisfy curiosity? Understanding why you want to engage in a threesome can help set realistic expectations and prevent misunderstandings.

Another important question to ask is about boundaries. What are your limits and what activities are off-limits? Openly discussing desires, fantasies, as well as hard limits will help create a safe space for exploration.

Don't forget about logistics! How will you find a third person or couple? Are there any safety concerns to address? Planning ahead can make all the difference in ensuring an enjoyable experience.

Lastly (but certainly not least), consider potential emotional repercussions. Will jealousy rear its green-eyed head or will it deepen trust between partners? It's essential to be honest with yourself about any potential emotional consequences.

Remember, exploring intimate desires requires open communication, respect for boundaries, and consent from all parties involved. If done right and everyone's onboard with enthusiasm (and perhaps some consent forms signed), threesomes can be quite memorable adventures indeed!

Now go forth my adventurous friend(s) but always remember: three may be company but it doesn't have to be crowd... unless that's what you're into! Enjoy responsibly!