ok, here goes... if you're using multiple apps with one pubkey, and you're posting notes and following or being followed, the relays are always playing catchup. there will be glitches. if you use a new app after you've been at it awhile with other apps, it thinks it's the only one, but it's late to the party. it doesn't know what's going on. get it?
I think using one app, add a bunch of relays, build a following/followers and then try a new app. add as many of the same relays except add a couple more, have some fun with it.
maybe a #dev can weigh in and geek up my layman's explanation.
#smij is learning too.
