Your lightning node is the same as your Bitcoin node. All “Lightning” Bitcoin is, is Bitcoin which has been sent to a 2/2 multi signature address with a peer, where the balance can be securely updated without creating an actual on chain transaction.
It’s still all there in your Bitcoin wallet, you’ve just added a layer to the payments structure.
Here are the steps to create a lightning channel:
1. Fund an on-chain wallet (on Umbrel, in the “lightning” app, there should be two wallets, one which is on chain and one which is lightning)
2. Use software to find peers - RTL works great and is the only one I’ve used, but I believe it has all the same features as thunderhub
3. Choose a node you’d like to connect to on a site like Amboss. You generally want to start by opening decent sized channels with well established nodes.
4. Find the address of the node. On Umbrel, you will only ever want to use a TOR address. As an example, here is mine: 022308f2ae4c5fde8d05ca8fa7a79b462e0e9c7d8f74cdfb1e08bbb51ff504bbc4@xipp6vr2urz52rmdsa64mlosvz6v32ouwholxotfi265u2e3sjequyqd.onion:9735
5. Connect to that peer (on RTL there is a button that just says add peer) and attempt to fund a channel to them. Some nodes have really big limits or other restrictions, so this may not always work, but if it doesn’t you can just find another node to connect to and repeat those steps again.
6. Watch the Bitcoin get locked up on chain and start using your lightning channel!