I didn't say that, I said it's the mother's job. If there's nothing stopping her from doing it, let her do it. Then they complain that they're being sued and destroyed by crazy feminist women. And honestly. That's embarrassing for a man, and he shouldn't be proud of it. I have two grown daughters and I've never had to resort to this kind of ridiculous artifice to help their mother raise them. I sincerely abhor such unnecessary virtue signaling. It sounds disingenuous to me. Just saying.