Be honest and tell her how you feel. I’m sure she would speak up if you were in the same situation.
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Did already. But that feeling won’t go away.
I’m sorry, thank you for sharing. I would try to spend more time with her to see if that connection is still there. If it’s forced, then maybe it’s time to move on friend.
First, figure out if that's insecurity in you or if there was a similar situation in your past that left an emotional scar.
Then, see if how she goes about it makes you feel you're not as important in some aspects or of that sort.
What to do about that info comes later, first really figure out the reason for those feelings.
Good advice 🙏🫂💜
It’s definitely not the way she handles it. Could be my own insecurities then …
Have to work on those i guess 💪
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Just make sure you don't restrict yourself during this process.
If you feel sad, hurt, mad about her, mad about the guy, feel you just don't want her to be talking to him any more, whatever it may be (I'm not saying you do feel or think these things, just as examples things people might want to avoided feeling or thinking), just allow yourself to feel and think them.
Don't act on them, don't say anything to her while still in this process, but really dive deep into yourself. I think there'll be good surprises at the end of the tunnel. 😄😄
Btw, maybe fear of losing her is one of the underlying reasons?
Definitely that is the underlying reason. Never met a person like her. Maybe thats the problem. I am relying too much on her being with me. Need to focus more on my own again maybe.
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You're great, that's why this great person is with you.
Relationships trigger a lot of deep issues including insecurities, which are great opportunities for us to solve them.
You got this, friend! 💖💖
Thanks for your helping words 🙏🫂💜
It’s really the first time i experience this. Never had to deal with jealousy in my previous relationships.