You are dealing with an individual who you want to wear said diaper. Be thankful they want to wear it.

Ps saw a diaper genie at the curb out for garbage tonight. I am still dreaming of that day. When I can be that sure

This saying seems smart but show a lack of ability to differentiate.

If someone has the brain power, they can differentiate between tasks where neatness is required and tasks where it is not. OCD is a deficiency where even the syrup on your waffles needs to be uniform. That's a liability, not an asset. A vice not a virtue.