There is no simple answer but in general, the majority of your time should be spent with your tribe. Some people are fortunate that their family is their tribe. For many, that’s not the case.

If your family is not your tribe, that’s fine, don’t waste much time trying to change them. Reach out periodically and spend time when you have positive energy to give. Let them know you love them as is. Don’t push, mostly give. That’s gonna drain you, but you’ll feel good about giving without strings.

Then hustle back to your tribe where there are people to build you up and encourage your beliefs. Spend time around people who inspire you.

That’s my 2 sats but it’s just a guess from the vid and general life advice from my experience. If none of it resonates, feel free to ignore 😁