Buy a Start9 server. It comes with support. Buy the Bitaxe from somewhere like Solo Satoshi. For lightning you have Alby hub and some others.
I built my own Start9 and added two bitaxe gammas. So far any questions I have have been answered by grok or YouTube.
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That pretty much covers it all.