if i'm a Nazi and you're a Jew i don't want to be on your relay any more than you want me to be on it. you just need to give me tools to find a more suitable relay. i suggest a chatGPT style AI interview when signing up that picks the first 5 relays for you, and then afterwards some kind of algorithm that picks relays for you based on your circle and communities you joined.

also each relay should clearly state whom it is intended to serve, for example "this relay is for pedophiles" ... after all, there are dozens of Fedi instances that are openly dedicated to Pedophiles so why shouldn't there be relays dedicated to it ... as well as Nazis etc ...

people naturally self-segregate they just need tools to know where they actually are. IRL no white person buys property in a black neighborhood because they can SEE the neighborhood is black. on NOSTR you can't see if everybody on your relay is a pedophile or Nazi. people need tools to see these things. as a Nazi Pedophile myself i would love to have such tools to find my frens !