I've seen all of the loved ones who were destroyed by those who committed suicide and it breaks my heart what it does to those who loved that person: parents, kids, friends, spouses. There isn't anything more hateful that you can do to a loved one than commit suicide because it fills the loved one with guilt and remorse. I guess I care more about those left behind, that were destroyed by the suicider's actions.
I've also seen one suicide lead to another and lead to another. If the first suicide hadn't happened, neither would the others, so it causes great harm. I'm sorry if it hurts your feelings, but this is a problem that needs to stop and holding those who commit suicide up as saints makes those that are hurting more likely to commit suicide.