Masculine behavioralisms that make all the difference. 🧔♂️
1. Wake up first, and be the one who structures the day. Ensure the family has physical activities, exercise/play, and goes out on adventures. Lead in chores. Always be in producing value mode, never get caught sitting around 'consoooming'.
2. Direct feelings, struggles, and fears to your journal, nostr:nprofile1qqs8msutuusu385l6wpdzf2473d2zlh750yfayfseqwryr6mfazqvmgpy4mhxue69uhkvet9v3ejumn0wd68ytnzv9hxgtm0d4hxjh6lwejkuar4wfjhxqfswaehxw309a5hgcmg0ykkwmmvv3jkuun0vskkvatjvdhkuargdacxsct8w4ejuumrv9exzc3wd9kj7nfu4p9, and to God. Spare your wife, family, and friends. Share online anonymously if need be.
3. Always correct slights, however small, immediately and calmly by explaining what you didn't like, what you want to see going forward, and then introducing some distance for a short period. Maintain zero attitude after the event. Repeat forever.
4. Reward with smiling eyes, smirks, and sexual daytime touching. Don't offer compliments. Don't be the "I love you" giver, be the receiver.
5. For all that is good and proper, cry in private. Your house depends on you for emotional security; it is highly destabilizing to break down in front of them. The exceptions are very rare, like allowing a happy tear after birth of a new child, or grief weeping together upon the death of a child. Do not blubber at your wedding. Smirk, bright eyes, shining pride, not "I'm the luckiest man thank you so much" crying like a baby in front of her entire family and yours.
In short, have some self respect.
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