I hear you, but discovery still matters. If no one sees what you post, then what’s the point? Decentralization's great, but without some way to connect, it just feels like yelling into the void.

Why should I know if you are following me? Do you answer anonymous calls? I don't

Boils down to if you want 100 percent privacy, don't post anything online. It seems best to culture your following to hopefully have a decent group of folks taht wehn you post, they see it, interact and you can converse about it if you want.

Nostr IS a social network isn't it?