Your data is correct, so it seems to be a problem with Damus.
Can I get data on which relays are using your relay to read?
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I read from all relays. I don't know who reads from me. Whoever wants to?
Most relays don't read from anyone, they just accept events from clients. Maybe nostr.wine reads from many relays, maybe there are others - I don't know.
Perhaps I have expressed myself badly.
For example nostr.mutinywallet.com reads the nostr.watch api and writes to all relays marked as online.
In the case of filter.nostr.win the list is small, they are the ones indicated in the main post.
In the case of nostr.band I don't know where it gets the data from, i.e. which list of relays.