I think he’s probably right about that for now but even if we only partially distribute as nostr scales the connections number will still be high.
Even if we stick with just 600 relays (no growth) and say only 10% of your follows choose their relays at random instead of 100%. We assume the other 90% all select the same 1 relay. If you follow 1000 people that’s still ~170 unique connections on average without the network being very distributed.