Does everyone else always feel like zapping back people who zap you? I am stuck between: wanting to zap back to show appreciation vs. feeling like the asshole who cannot accept a gift gracefully.

Like if someone gives you a gift irl , you say thanks and later you can give them a different gift to reciprocate.

I like getting zapped because hopefully it means I added value. But at the same time, I want to send more sats than I recieve on here.

Current compromise is to zap back a smaller amount.