In the few days I've been using Nostr, by far my biggest annoyance is when I respond to a note from client 1, but do not see it replicated in client 2.
Likely a relay(s) issue I presume, but annoying nonetheless.
Would anyone that's never experienced this care to share their relay list?
AFAIK you should use the same relays on both clients. Some clients have their own relay list, so you won't always have the relays from client 1 on client 2. Add them manually and you should be good.
Yep, just before I sent the note I did this.
Since using amethyst as main I haven't experice this issue when switching clients - this is my current list
Thank you. I also use Amethyst so will compare with my list.
I noticed that and speed was also a major problem. Have a look at the paid relay nostr.wine. You could remove or at least drastically reduce the number of relays you need as they pull data from many relays for you. They also broadcast your posts to the main relays improving your reach. I’m trying them out now
I’m sure we’ll see some really clever services provided by paid relays
