IMHO gossip's relay management still needs a lot of work, just like a lot of other things still need a lot of work. I want to see the other answers to this question so I can cheat off of whatever they did (!)
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Which client has the best user defined relay management?
I know gossip by nostr:npub1acg6thl5psv62405rljzkj8spesceyfz2c32udakc2ak0dmvfeyse9p35c does nice things for follows but anyone make relay selection a first class citizen?
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I just like that it follows a user where they're at.
Now i want to surface the option for a user to be more deliberate about where they're posting events.