One aspect of masculinity is having the balls to speak your mind and stand for what you believe is right, whether or not someone agrees with you. That someone could be in the majority or the minority, it doesn't matter.
No one here is using words to intentionally offend others, but inevitably when one voices an opinion, someone will be offended no matter what. I don't see why anyone should be censoring themselves to spares someone else's feelings if the intent is not to offend. That, to me, is why places like Nostr now exist, because language and thought policing has gone to the extremes on all mainstream social media. I'm sick of it, too.