But she didn't create an opening. She told the new guy he's something extra, but she will honor her marriage and won't do anything. But would like a friend to talk to.
Unfortunately that is obviously pretty thick ice for a man to slide on in.😀
But it basically just speeded up the very natural process of people growing apart.
Funny thing is she was honest and had no idea.
A lot is just instinct. Apathetic men have sort of abandoned you, so you get scared and look for a Plan B. And Plan B wants something more for his efforts than "Gee thanks, buddy."
Hindbrain stuff.
I srsly don't think so. Scared isn't my style. I created Twitter to just bitch out anonymously about my job and clients. Other than that we got drunk af with my husband almost daily and definitely on weekends, bc we were best friends. But when that spark emerged, everything went boom within months. But it applies to meeting real love after real mistaken friendship. I can't imagine "being in love" with two guys simultaneously. Hugh Jackman may be the exception, but that doesn't really count, does it.😀
*thinking about my guy friends now*
I don't think it necessary works like that, just drip into a "bruh" category. And all of us in contact have small kids and visibly no desire to mate anywhere anytime.😂
Well since I'm surprisingly naive and uninformed when it comes to a penis, I'll gladly flush this thought altogether.
Srsly, raising boys and asking my husband about health things taught me that dick itself is way more complicated thing than the rest of the man.👀😂
You just memed straight out of my heart, dear. Could you buy me an ice cream on your way back? Also milk. 😘muah
