It seems you can't qualify it if you never got it in the path you were going to.

help is not "order", or doing things instead of you.

help is just something that is useful for you at the best time in your life path.

That's why it is sad you seems to not have some from anyone on this earth yet to reach your goal.

Unconditional help is really interesting to live, as the help giver or the one who receive it.