It's actually really easy to tell who men truly love.

Just ask them to imagine the following scenario:

You and everyone around you have been slowly starving. There is now only one bowl of stew left and you are holding it. Person X is sitting next to you and is just as hungry, as you are.

Do you:

1) eat it quickly?

2) share it with X?

3) give X the bowl and encourage them the eat the entire thing?

That's indifference, alliance, love.